Customer Reviews
Charting a path... - By: Kurt Messick, 11 Jan 2006 
I first read M. Scott Peck's `The Road Less Travelled' over 20 years ago, but it is a text to which I return again & again, as Peck's insights & observations remain a constant source of inspiration & guidancein my life. It still finds a ready homein the hands of therapists, counselors, ministers, teachers, career planners, & others as part of their resources, & is not out of placein the home of anyone who cares about the directions of her or his life.
Peck is a clinical psychiatrist - the material for this book came largely from his experiences with clients & others, seeing what worked & what didn't, what was missing & what was mis-understood. Often cases involved psychotherapy (talk therapy), but the processes here are not confined to therapists' offices. The same kinds of problem solving, processing & relationship building that takes placein psychotherapy can be used as life-long tools.
Peck resists labels such as Freudian & Jungian; he doesn't look for, nor does he offer, quick fixes or the psychotherapeutic variety of the get-rich-quick schemes. This book is not a therapy manual, but rather a guide to spiritual growth that incorporates therapeutic & psychological principles. Peck echoes the sentiments of many spiritual directors & leaders through the millennia that spiritual & personal growth are long journeys, not short leaps. It involves dedication & intention, & a willingness to accept risk & change.
Perhaps it is ironic that, given this, the first topic Peck focuses upon is Discipline. However, without discipline, change can go unchecked & uncharted, growth can become problematic, & the human soul becomes susceptible to a host of difficulties. Dedication & application to problem-solving & long-term building (whether it be of retirement funds or of one's own spirit) requires a disciplined approach that recognises that life is difficulty (the first of Buddha's Four Noble Truths, cited by Peck), gratification sometimes needs to be delayed for greater goods, & reality needs to be approached & dealt with responsibly.
Peck calls here for a life to be totally dedicated to the truth. This is hard, because we as human beings are so accustomed to rationalisation & reinterpretation. This kind of dedication also requires a balancein life, & an ability to be flexible as the truths of our lives change - few of us arein possession of timeless & eternal truths governing every aspect of our lives, & often those who feel they are end up disappointedin the end. The continuing creativity of Godin our lives requires flexibility, but this is best achievedin a disciplined & balanced context.
Peck then turns to love, a mysterious thing evenin the best of times. He identifies some of the myths of `fallingin love' & romantic love that our culture through various means idealises, leading to great dissatisfaction when we do not achieve the desired feelings or situations. Peck makes the assertion that love is not really a feeling, but rather an action or activity, that involves a lot of risk-taking (Peck talks about risks of independence, of commitment, of confrontation, & of loss). True love requires discipline & recognition of the needs of the self & others.
The final two sections of the text deal with aspects of religion on the spiritual & psychological development of persons. The first section looks at religion & growth processes. He does a short survey of some attitudes toward religions & denominations, as well as a look at how the modern scientific mindset colours the worldview of modern people, particularly with ideas of verification & skepticism. Some psychologists & theorists have wondered if religion were mass delusions, mass psychosis, or some other kind of sickness. Peck uses interesting extended case studies here to examine the role of various aspects of religionin the developmental lives of several people. Peck asks the question, `Is beliefin God a psychopathology?' In some aspects, & for some people, the way they approach & `use' religion, the answer may well be yes. However, Peck also takes the psychotherapeutic community to task for often being too narrow or too dismissive of the value of religious sentiment & institutionsin the lives of their charges.
The final section looks at the role of gracein the spiritual growth process. Grace is another mysterious force, like love, that is difficult to pin down & explain. It is also something uncontrollable. Why do some with artistic talent end up being successful & celebrated, & others not? Why do some use their talent, when others don't? In cases of ultimate despair, Peck makes the observation that while it is often clear why some people commit suicide, it is not often clear why othersin the same situations don't. Some of this has to do with the unconscious mind that guides us, & some of it has to do with the miracle of serendipity, as Peck describes it.
Peck describesin some detail his concept of what grace is & how it works,in very general terms that relate to no denomination or religionin particular, but has wide applicability. He talks both about resistance to grace & the welcoming of grace. Grace is not easy, & often comes with responsibilities (Bonhoeffer talks about cheap grace; the requirements of grace are noted through scriptures of many religions). Welcoming grace welcomes often more than we bargained for, but also often more than we hoped.
In his afterword, Peck discusses the difficulties of writingin an organised & linear fashion about something so fundamentally disorganised as spiritual growth & therapeutic processes. He also talks about the need for finding competent help when required - ability is not measured by degrees, he states (something truein many professions). This is useful for those seeking a first therapeutic relationship, or needing a change.
Outstanding text on personal growth and love. Easy to read. - By: , 26 Aug 2001 This book is a close look at love & relationships from the psychoanalytical side. It doesn't get too technical or obscure however. M. Scott Peck allows for the spiritual/social growth of his readers by explaining lovein an non-judgemental way. One feels safe whilst reading this amazing book & it will draw you on to better & closer friendships with new people & those you already think you love.
A fascinating insight into the bewildering journey of life. - By: , 25 Jun 2001 M. Scott Peck offers not only comfort & support but motivation & realistic, practical suggestions to help the reader find their own road through life. He pulls no punches, & at no point tries to convince you that the world is a wonderful place, but instead is completely honest about the difficulties out there to be faced. The book contains a balance of psychology, philosophy, case studies, & the author's own experiences. It takes a converstional approach & is at no point patronising. When I began reading this book I began seeing a little of myselfin every case study & observation. I was able to see clearly many of my faults & neuroses. However, I also was able to see that these faults & neuroses were actually pretty common & easily surmountable provided I had the inclination. By the end of the book I felt positive about my life & the road I was travelling. As a direct result of reading this book I no longer worry about the problems life may throw at me as I know I am easily capable of coping (at least reasonably well!). I have managed to clear many of the skeletons out of my closit, & can see the path ahead.
